Friday, December 25, 2009

Not always better to give than to receive...

Sometimes neutrality is better. Noone gives and noone receives.

Sometimes it is better neither to expect anything nor give anything in return. Sometimes it's just less depressing to not to give at all. It can actually be a relief to not have to pretend to not notice that one is the only person not on the receiving end.

Sometimes, whether it be the needy friend who only shows up when they need something, or a member of the family who doesn't pitch in, it is better to distance oneself and neither be disappointed, nor trying to pretend not to care. Because sometimes, it is better for one's own personal mental health, not to give oneself reason to be depressed.

Sometimes, being on equal ground is much better than either giving or receiving.